Obviously if you love someone, leaving is not the first thing you’d want to do. It’s a contradiction in many ways, a soup of cognitive dissonance. But for some unlucky few, this is a bitter pill that they’ve had to swallow, for some many times over. I guess you just need a good reason.
September 12, 2009 → The Top Ten Reasons To Leave Someone You Love
- Dru – If he’s too much like Rhianna’s songs – Unfaithful and Disturbia.
- No name – If his “EGO” is too hard to swallow.
- Terrybol – Because I found out that his nickname for me is, “his last resort”.
- Wickedmarrionette – Because I got demoted from “girlfriend”, to “the girl he flirts with while the girlfriend is away”.
- No name – I thought we were happy together until he told me that we were not.
- McMaki – If she tells you, “I just realized you’re not Chinese…”
- Paula – If he starts acting more like a parent than a boyfriend.
- Astroboy – If you catch yourself pretending to be happy.
- Loi Pogi – If you find out that he’s one of those guys who are, “Bi Now, Gay Later.”
- AA – We’ve been together for 10 years and we’ve never had sex.
- Rayakin – Nung computer na ang hinihingi niya. I’m gay na may jowang bagets.
- Lonely Girl – When you can’t remember why you fell in love with him in the first place.
- Chip – Because it was wrong to begin with.
- Robjo – Because I wanted a boyfriend, not a baby.
- Alien V – Mas mabuti nang mag-isa kaysa may pangit na kasama.
- Gong – If I’m an option and not a choice.
- Chun Yang – When you find yourself hanging on to something you’re better off letting go. “To have it halfway is harder than not having it at all.”
- Irish – Pag naghihilahan na kayo pababa.
- Maximo – Kasi gusto na niyang bumalik sa tunay niyang asawa.
- Carrie Bradshaw Blvd – I had to leave him when he was terminally ill. His family brought him to the US & they asked me to let go and go on with my life.
- KT – Because he chose his inheritance over me.
- Marvinbez- Leave while there are still more happy memories than sad.
- PrettyMe17 – When I found out he’s not only cheating on his wife, but he’s cheating on me as well.
- PrettyMe17 – When the person you want the m0st, is the pers0n that you’re better off without.
- Bapsdar – If you both go home to your respective families carrying a lot of guilt.
- Chloe – If he drives a wedge between me and my daughter.
- Chuchi Cua – If it becomes more painful to stay.
- No name – I left my b0yfriend, a policeman, who was also my bestfriend f0r 5 years. Because he shot my brother in a police raid. I want to forgive him but I just can’t.
- Espeks – When loving her costs more than your monthly salary.
- Cha – So you can come back, and have great make-up sex.
- Blue 4W – If he can’t stand up for you when you go against his mother.
- Habibi – When the unintentional hurting becomes intentional.
- Espeks – When making love becomes plain sex.
- Bobcat – If you find out that your loved one is a professional escort.
- No name – Because I don’t want to be a mistress forever.
- Hornelia – Because I finally found someone who loves me BACK.
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sometimes love is just ain’t enough…parang kanta lang diba? hindi pwedeng ipilit kung dimo naman kayang kantahin kahit ito pa ang pinaka hit single o sikat ngayon.
wow…ang saklap!
sometimes you realize you are stronger than you think you are when you do these tough things in life. I kinda find myself somewhere in between in these things…
Kung ang karibal mo na sa kanya ay ang Diyos.
uhm … howcome this top 10 entry is dated september 12, 2009? i understand how it feels as if time is wheezing by so fast. pero hindi ba nasa april, 2009 palang tayo?
una, napaka advance ng entry na ito.san po yung pang 123 ng best and the rest? and september 12,2009?hehe april pa lang po…
on topic:
pag lagi niang sinasabi na ikaw ang priority nia pero binabalewala ka naman..
sometimes it would be worth leaving someone you really love especially if you knew right from the start that that person was first loved and owned by someone else… kung baga sa laruan, hindi sya sa’yo and hiniram mo lang kaya dapat isoli mo sa may ari… it’s ok to enjoy it and have fun with it but DON’T OWN IT! Come on…reality check, NOBODY PREFFERS 2nd HANDS…. We would always wish for something brand new, right?
Hi Chico, could you please have the top 10 answers to the question “Do you still love me?” I was caught off guard when my ex asked me this during an inuman with his friends. Thanks!
hahahaha!! I can’t stop laughing when I started reading your TOP TEN’s…
galing!! lalo na po yung mga “greens”..! mwehehehe!!
nag-eenjoy talaga ako! (–,)v
it just happened like that pero iba iba rin ang mga reasons kung bakit. sometimes, he’s just letting you go dahil he gave up already na ganon lang kadali. although sinasabi nia ikaw ang priority nia kaysa sa work nia pero it turned out nde pala ganon. minsan nde nagagawa ang role ng isa’t isa. may mga expectations na nde nangyayari. ang nde ko lang maintindihan, kung bakit ganon lang kadali i-give up ang relasyon or i-let go ang isa’t isa kung pede pa naman i-work out and have another chance to work it out. nde naman lahat ng relasyon ay smooth sailing, kaya nga may problema dumarating sa atin dahil tine-test tayo ni God kung gaano tayo katatag and how we can handle it and deal with it at lalo na pagdating sa relasyon. tapos, you will hear na “i still love you…” what’s the point of breaking up, giving up, and letting go kung mahal nio pa rin ang isa’t isa?
ive been there .. done that .. and its not easy either way .. ikaw man ang iniwan o ang nag.iwan..
kapag ndi nyamasabing mahal ka nya..at pag naramdaman mong ndi ka na masaya kahit mahal na mahal mo pa siya.. sad..
“Cha – So you can come back, and have great make-up sex.”
Too true… Too true.. lol.
Ganun talaga eh.
topic: i left someone ive been together with for seven years who loves me so much just because i already found my soulmate, we’re now more that 2 yrs and very much in love with each other (wink wink)